BFF friendships are messy, loving, spiteful, supportive, competitive, joyful, and funny. While some can be enriching and filled with adventure, others are insanely complicated. Any combination of snubs, slights, misunderstandings, or betrayals can disrupt the status quo — and a rock-solid bond can seesaw into feelings of exclusion and abandonment. But at the end of the day, they are my BFF's and I wouldn't want them any other way.
I am a strong woman because I have surrounded myself with strong women. Who do not think it is behaving like a man. Instead, they embrace their feminity and show it to the world, while making sure they take control of the things that they are doing and get them done. Being a strong woman means loving yourself when the rest of society says you're too big or too skinny or too dark or too tall or too short or too much or too little. It means defining your own strength, instead of adhering to a set of standards society has decided women must follow in order to be considered strong.
I have seen my share of ups and downs and if not for the woman in my life and the support of them, I would not be the strong, confident woman I am today! They know who they are ~ they are strong and have already identified their needs and their goals. They always put their dreams over anything else. They are not embarrassed to show their genuine self. They want to keep growing and improving, which is why they are keen on pushing themselves more even onto new boundaries. They make sure that they don’t only do good, but better. They are not ashamed about still having to learn a lot of things, and willing to teach what they have learned to others. Although they are confident about what they can do, they don’t let it stop them from learning more.
Thank you to all the strong woman in my life ~ I salute you!
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