The Law of Attraction

I've been fortunate enough to be blessed with a wonderful loving family. A family that would do anything for me, yet when it comes to knowing one another's needs and wishes we don't know each other at all! It's not because we don't want to know. Is it because we're afraid to be vulnerable, afraid of being hurt, afraid to reveal our true selves and disappoint those who love us most?

After years of what feels like a broken heart and trying to find love and the answers to my pain, I finally heard the voice inside me telling me that this seeking and trying to find answers to heal your broken heart isn't working.  It's true, I spent so many years complaining about the hardships I had and the failures, I forgot to recognize the good things that were happening to me today. I also failed to recognize no matter what I did, I was always going to have the love and support of my family. So why then was it so difficult to let them in and include them to what was really going on for me?

I attempted to conquer life all on my own for a very long time, to this day apart of me succumbs to the believe it's me that has to figure things out, since I made the choice that put me here. All good if you're taking responsibility for your behaviour and accountability for how your behaviour affects others, but not if the those that love you aren't allowed to participate in your life. How will they know if I don't include them?  How can they participate when I have shut them out? What would life be like if we accepted the love from family and others? When you start believing in yourself completely and believing love is available to you, who knows how high you will climb! Imagine the possibilities! 

We all want to have love in our lives and to be loved. At some point in my life I decided I wasn't worthy of it.  I was lovable and was capable of giving love, had friends, family and opportunities many wished for, so why was I alone? I determined it was better for me to be alone, I designed my life to be that way.  I had been doing everything alone and had a real difficult time accepting any kind of compassion. I learned the very thing that what was holding me back from having love in my life was not accepting love.

If we manifest a life without love, sad but true this is what we will have. If we develop a clear and centered state of consciousness and a willingness to center ourselves and use powers of the heart in a world that is difficult to find love we will invite a line up of people that want to be with us. All you have to is have a look and pick one! 

So each and every one of us are manifesting through the energy we emanate through our thoughts, words and actions. You are already interacting with the Law of Attraction; every action an equal reaction. A shift from the pushing and pulling to a realistic world in which consciousness plays a role. Keep it simple and definitely don't push.  Let go of expectations that life has to be any particular way. Let go and take life as it comes. Let go and let things be the way they are. It requires a willingness to be equals with the universe, when we are equal with all that is, we support the universe and the universe supports us.